Feature for Alfie
English rose Kate Winslet may be one of the country's leading actresses -
but when it comes to talking about her family she simply can't stop her
emotions running wild.
The screen beauty broke down in tears while gushing about her love for
husband Sam Mendes and children during a recent television interview.
She blubbed: "I had a baby. His father is Sam Mendes. He is really wonderful
and this is an amazing and emotional time and I see him being a wonderful
father."
But the incident is not the first time the star has broken down - she was
inconsolable when Mendes was branded a "marriage wrecker."
The beautiful actress met the 'American Beauty' director just four months
after her split from husband Jim Threapleton, the father of her first child
Mia, in December 2001.
She was so devastated by reports that Sam had caused the rift in her
three-year marriage that she collapsed in tears.
Kate once revealed: "I cried a lot. I really cried. I'd just got out of the
shower one morning and I thought about it all and I literally collapsed on
the floor sobbing for about an hour, going, 'How can they do this to me?' I
know why my marriage broke down. I know that it had nothing at all to do
with Sam.'"
The actress originally insisted that she had the "ideal divorce." But later
she admitted she was fed up of being made to look like the break-up with Jim
was all her fault.
She explained at the time: "People saw my ex-husband as the underdog. It was
horrible, really horrible."
Despite the heartache, the actress has always been attracted to men in the
film industry.
She dated actor Stephen Tredre, 12 years her senior, between 1991 and 1995.
He tragically later died from bone cancer.
Kate then married first husband Jim, who she met when he was assistant
director on her movie 'Hideous Kinky,' and the couple had daughter Mia on 12
October, 2000. Unfortunately, this did not keep them together, and a series
of publicised rows eventually led to the break-up.
After the divorce, Kate was said to be furious at reports that she was
spending all her time at showbiz parties with Sam, while Jim was left
looking after their baby daughter Mia.
She said: "There came a time in England when I thought, 'How can I go on
living like this?' - particularly when so many people would call me and say,
'Did you see that thing saying Mia lives with Jim?' And that I was always
out at the theatre, attending premieres and blah blah blah. That made me
absolutely furious because my child lives with me and I'm with her all the
time."
Nowadays, Kate and Sam are seen as a perfect showbiz couple and she thinks
he is a fantastic father to their son, Joe, who was born last Christmas,
despite his one-time playboy reputation.
She recently gushed: "Sam's absolutely amazing and incredibly hands-on. He's
always been so wonderful with Mia and it's more wonderful for me to see how
he is with Joe."
The couple's secret marriage on the Caribbean island of Anguilla in May last
year came as a compete surprise even to friends and family.
It was during that holiday-turned-honeymoon that the 28-year-old actress
first suspected that she was pregnant.
But it hasn't always been Kate's family or films which have made her the
focus of media attention.
Her fluctuating weight has also been the source of many stories.
Born in Reading, Berkshire, she has said she weighed 185lbs at school and
suffered the nickname Blubber.
However, this didn't stop her landing a host of television and stage roles,
including a part in a Sugar Puffs cereal commercial.
Her big screen break came in 'Heavenly Creatures' - made by Oscar-winning
'Lord of the Rings' director Peter Jackson - where she played a young girl
who helps her best friend murder her mother.
As her career gained momentum, Kate left school and immediately her roles
grew more prominent, and she received her first Oscar nominated after
playing Marianne in Emma Thompson's Oscar-winning 'Sense and Sensibility.'
She soon became a role model for women sporting fuller figures, especially
after her second Oscar-nomination in Hollywood blockbuster 'Titanic.'
However, Kate stunned fans when she admitted that GQ magazine had used
computer technology to make her look slimmer during a photo shoot. A week
later it was alleged she used a body double in other pictures, which she
denied.
When the revelations made national headlines, the actress defended her
decision to allow GQ to airbrush her pictures, claiming it proved
celebrities weren't really as perfect as they appeared to be.
She said at the time: "I'm very aware, because I did it myself, that young
women look at publications like that and see a woman looking beautiful,
looking sexy and in their mind looking perfect. Therefore these women strive
to look like this perfection. But that isn't real. It is important to say
magazines do this - they do make perfection."
However, Kate looked stunning in a pale blue Ben De Lisi gown at the recent
London premiere of her new movie, 'Finding Neverland', in which she stars
opposite Johnny Depp's 'Peter Pan' author JM Barrie. And the reason behind
her glowing appearance is clear - with a devoted husband and two beautiful
children, Kate admits she is "genuinely happy" for the first time in her
life.
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star.
But, out of all the new films, there's one that's closest to his heart. On
the set of 'Alfie', in which he plays the title character in the remake of
the Michael Caine classic, he met girlfriend Sienna Miller - although he
certainly wasn't looking for a relationship when shooting began. The
31-year-old actor was going through a painful divorce with ex-wife Sadie
Frost, the mother of his three children, and finding love again was the last
thing on his mind.
However, Jude was blown away by his stunning co-star and the pair began a
relationship soon after - and, 18 months on, they are still blissfully
happy.
He revealed recently: "I think she's extraordinary. It blew me away when I
first saw her on camera. I just hadn't seen anything like it."
While he played womaniser Alfie in the film, Jude says he has never been
interested in one-night stands - so it was no surprise he settled down with
Sienna so soon after his marriage broke down.
He said: "I'm someone who always looked for commitment - that's why I got
married and had children. Alfie could probably be a really great boyfriend,
but he can't just go that last leap."
Despite the beautiful couple's happiness, they have no plans to marry, with
Sienna recently slamming reports they have got engaged as "complete
nonsense".
She added: "I am bemused as to where these reports have come from."
While Jude is content in his personal life now, the same couldn't be said at
this time last year.
In September 2003, he and ex-wife Sadie were granted a 'quickie' divorce,
amid bitterness and recriminations. Sadie, 37, started proceedings against
her husband of seven years, claiming his "unreasonable behaviour" had led
her to seek "medical treatment on three occasions".
The couple, who met on the set of the 1994 film 'Shopping', had originally
separated at the end of 2002. Their problems seemed to begin when their
daughter, Iris, accidentally swallowed an Ecstasy tablet while attending a
birthday party with her mother. The incident reportedly infuriated Jude, and
friends claim the couple never really got over it.
Although the settlement from their divorce is said to be not completely
finalised, they are reportedly in talks regarding a £10million payout for
Sadie and the pair have put aside their differences for the sake of their
children, Rafferty, eight, four-year-old Iris and Rudy, two.
But, despite his love for his children, Jude - who is also stepfather to
Sadie's son, Finlay, from her first marriage - has now decided to put more
effort into his career. Before the split, he was terrified the children
would be affected by his work, and the fame that comes with it, but he has
now realised it's just part of their upbringing.
He recently said: "They're having a very weird time, because they're growing
up with me as their dad. My worry was always that I wasn't this dad who was
going to be home at five o'clock every night. Later, I realised this is my
life; I am their father. You have to embrace what you do."
With his fame getting bigger the day, Jude now has to deal with being public
property - something which he despises.
He said: "Being chased by the paparazzi is like being followed by snipers -
it's worse than that now. They're actually asking for pictures of my kids.
In Britain, this obsession with tat and gossip and second-rate information:
it's like a cancer that's taken over. There's this culture of, 'As long as
you get a picture, you can write anything that tags along with it.' But I
don't want to sound like I'm bitching and whining. A lot of people will read
this and think, 'Oh, why are you complaining? You get paid well. You lead a
great life. What are you complaining about?'"
He admits he would love to move to America on a full-time basis, if it wasn't
for his children being settled in England, as he believes the press aren't
as intrusive over there.
He said: "I feel safer in New York - there are photographers all over the
sets, but they leave you alone once you've left the set. For some reason,
you feel kind of invisible there. In London, you feel in on show."
But, with four movies out at the same time - 'The Aviator', 'Lemony Snicket's
A Series of Unfortunate Events', 'Sky Captain and the World of Tomorrow' and
'Alfie' - Jude knows he's going to be overexposed.
He said: "I do worry about it. It's a shame because it took me two years to
make them and it's just my luck they're all coming out within four months.
The one thing, I think, is that they're all completely different."
Although he is one of Hollywood's hottest properties at the moment, Jude
could only dream of this when he started out, starring in British TV show
'Families' at the age of 17. He went on to appear in stage shows in the West
End and on Broadway and starred in many independent films.
His big break came in 1999 when he starred in 'The Talented Mr. Ripley',
playing Matt Damon's obsession. As well as it being a box office hit, it was
critically acclaimed, with Jude winning a Bafta Award and an Oscar
nomination for his performance - beginning his rise to superstardom.
In 2001, he starred in blockbuster 'AI: Artificial Intelligence' before 2002's
'Road to Perdition'.
He earned another Oscar-nomination in 2003 for his performance alongside
good friend Nicole Kidman in 'Cold Mountain'.
While he didn't win the coveted award, having enjoyed a hugely successful
2004 and with the release of the eagerly-anticipated 'All the King's Men' in
2005, it wouldn't be a surprise of Jude Law is soon up on the podium
collecting his well-deserved accolade.
- Autumn Randall / BANG
